Think Positively

Hi guys, welcome to the end of November!
Tomorrow is already December, it's like just a blink of an eyes. I thought tomorrow is the 30th of November. But then i realized that i have exam on 30th November, which means today!

Any plans for December?
As for me, well maybe preparing for Christmas celebration at my school because me and my choir team will be singing 1 song at my school and at my old junior high school. It's making me nervous as the day is going to come closer, just like in 2 weeks?

Anyway, as the tittle said. I'm battling with thinking positively and my anxiety. Not like the biggest anxiety, but just like a small anxiety.
I had a fight with my friend, over a small thing. I am wrong, so i apologized but she doesn't seem to have forgive me up until the time i write this. I'm really okay though but the feel that caused by only one person while others are acting fine to me is just not comfortable. But i'm thankful though that she doesn't say anything in social media about this and gradually i talk to her eventhough she never look at my face but, that's okay! At least i know she hear me.

So where's the anxiety? Here they come.
From time to time, i learned that getting friends are one hard thing at least for me. I am very shy, and i need a long time to adapt to people or places. So knowing that i have friends that can and willing to accept me is a thing that makes me at least calm for the rest of my high school life. I too won't forget my friends, but as the time goes some friends might forget me. So nowadays i try my best so my friends won't get offended by me, once i offended one of my bestfriends, and it's like i live in hell for 3 days. To be honest, it's not a comfortable thing to do because, you, not only thinking about yourself but also people around you. I've grown up a little because of doing that too. I have anxiety of losing people, and forgotten. It really is sucks, because you'll never feel safe and secure when people don't talk to you, or like your posts. I have that thing i know it sounds ridiculous but believe me, not only me but other people too.

As for the post itself, i might have to change my mindset about this. I seriously need to do that because some people might understand, but some may don't. I heard a saying that say to live your own life because bastards will judge you anyway, but if i do that, no one wants to be friends with me. So, i will change my way of thinking about each other.

I searched for a way to think positively, some of you might to read this too so if you have a bad day, you can smile and think positively again!


HOW TO BE POSITIVE THINKER

Be Grateful

Learning to be grateful for all you have in life is fundamental to becoming a positive thinker. If you are reading this you most likely have access to a computer, Internet, A LIFE! Be grateful for others who are there for you and for all the things that you are appreciative of in life. Everything you have is a privilege in life; treat it that way.

Eliminate Drama

Starting drama is a nasty characteristic to carry. Eliminating drama from your life starts from ditching the people who start drama about everything and everyone under the sun. Even if they are not starting drama about you they are increasing the risk of turning you into a drama starter as well. Eliminate these people and influences from your life because you should be rejoicing in happiness and gratitude, not silly drama.

Surround Yourself With Supportive People

Ditching drama filled people from your life goes along with surrounding yourself with supportive people. You know who is a bad influence on your life and who is not. Your friends are either there for you or not. Choose the people you let into your life wisely.

Take Responsibility

Transitioning to thinking more positively than before starts with taking the initiative to do so. You have to want to be happier. You also have to take responsibility for the things that sometimes go wrong in your life and make the decision that YOU can change it for the better.

Be Kind

Be nice to others. It’s that simple. Being kind to others will generate positive feelings for you and the person you are being kind to. Everybody is a winner in this situation. Being kind is to be a good person and there is no better way to think and live positively.

Set Aside “You” Time

Sometimes we need time to just slow down and become absorbed within our own thoughts. Whether this is through meditation, yoga, music, going for a walk, fishing, etc… we can all benefit from sometime to escape reality and become lost within our own train of thoughts.

Have Fun

An obvious way to eliminate negative thinking is to have fun. Having fun leads to laughter, excitement, and enjoyment. As long as no one is getting harmed in the process live it up and have fun, it is why we are all here in the first place.

Learn To Forgive

It takes a strong person to give forgiveness for something. It also isn’t worth your time to dwell on what is already done. What’s done is done and in the past and that’s where it deserves to remain. Giving forgiveness can be hard to conquer but if done so it will allow you to move on from your mistakes as well as others. Happiness and positive thinking cannot be achieved or improved if we are holding on to what was done in the past.

Thinking The Glass Is Half Full (Not Half Empty)

Whatever happens in life (within reason) treat it as being for the better and not for the worse. If you are having a bad day, flip your thought process to what has happened that day that was good. This technique is simply learning how to become optimistic. Thinking optimistically is thinking positively. Not every situation in life allows for us to think optimistically. Life comes with hardship from time to time. However, the majority of day-to-day events can be treated with this type of thinking.

Stop Over thinking

Getting over-absorbed within our fast paced lives can sometimes lead us to over think our current state instead of seeing the grand scheme of things. If you go through a funk in life and it seems like you can’t fight your way out, keep fighting. Hard work and determination will prevail in the end. As long as you are doing something to improve yourself for the better don’t spend energy worrying about what is to come. Think positively, live in the moment, but try not to over think too much.

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So that's all of my post! I hope this help you over thinker and me too lol. Have a nice day and please take your time to rest (it's 8 PM here in Indonesia)